Back to One - The Journey of the Soul (3) --- Crisis

http://true1111.blog.fc2.com/blog-entry-9.html 

 At the time I first learned of the term "twin flame," I read this one over and over again. 

I would like to quote here and add what is commonly said and what I feel. 

Phase 1: Recognition (Encounter) 
Phase 2: Testing 
Phase 3: Crisis 
Phase 4: Runner and Chaser (separation) 
Phase 5: Letting Go (Purification) 
Phase 6: Awakening 
Phase 7: Harmony (Reunion) 

◆Stage 3: Crisis

 After a tender sweet nectar-like encounter, the Twin Flames face a crisis. 

Their soul task in this life is to "learn unconditional love. 

Therefore, a variety of challenges are prepared to make them abandon their beliefs and egos about romantic relationships. 

When they try to pass through the ideas and ego (conditional love) of their previous love experiences, they are plagued with fear and anxiety that somehow they will lose the other person, and their hearts are torn to pieces. 

This fear further torments each other, making them emotionally unsettled and mentally unstable. Despite this, they are eager to continue their relationship with each other... 

"Oh, you still don't get it?" 

And the universe's ultimatum is. One rejects the other, one runs away from it, and so on. 

 Ego is not so easy to understand in Japanese. 

It is a way of loving with conditions attached, such as, "If you love me, you should ~ do it," "I love him, so I must ~ do it," "I am older than him, so I should ~ do it." 

 This suffering is the challenge that the universe has delivered to the two of you (like a learning drill?). The two people in the middle of it all have no idea what is going on. They can only nod their heads in fear. 

 The ultimate in the twin flame is to learn unconditional love. 

In order for two people to merge, they must raise their awareness to the level of unconditional love. 

In order to do this, they are being made to experience this process of suffering in order to draw out and realize the errors of their old patterns of love (conditional love).