【Session Report】I must be perfect.

This client was, in fact, a fortune teller with a career of over 30 years this time....

Facial, Palmistry, Reiki, Numerology, Four Pillar Divination, etc....

She has been with her clients for more than 30 years, using various " skills " such as face reading, palm reading, reiki, numerology, four-pillar reading, etc....

But, she said to me...

"I don't have confidence in my skills.

And even though I love my job, every time I do it, it exhausts me." ... 😲.

She was a person who had experienced many things in her life, and had bitten off both sweet and sour feelings.

Although she was supposed to be here for a "hypnotherapy session," for some reason, the client was just making small talk at the beginning.

From that time on.

I could see her mind saying, "I don't want you to look at me" or "I don't want you to see through me.

So, little by little, we began the hypnotherapy session.

This time, I suggested a soul journey back to her childhood.

She is the eldest of three sisters.

What she saw was her childhood, when she was about six years old.

She is sitting at the piano.

Her mother is beside her, and if she makes even the slightest fingering mistake, she beats the back of her hand with a wooden stick about 50 centimeters long.

"Why can't you do that?!!!!"

Born as the eldest daughter, the client had to be perfect for her mother at all times.

She must never make a mistake. No mistakes.

Only a very few wealthy families of her age would be able to afford piano lessons.

The mothe demands everything from her.

"You must be the best in your studies.

You must be the piano accompanist not only for the class, but for the whole grade.

You must be a prodigy better than anyone else.

You must not fail, you are the perfect child of the 00 family.

You must be better than anyone else. Don't disgrace the our family."

The client grew up feeling that it was even her "mission" to satisfy her mother.

However, no matter how hard she tried, she was never praised by her mother.

"She always blamed me for the smallest of mistakes, as if she were picking at a corner of a heavy box."

She said, "It's sad. My mother didn't love me because I wasn't perfect."

Our client has worked harder than most people to get to where he is today.

I wonder how many people have been healed, gained a ray of hope, and recovered through her counseling.

However, the childhood imprinting of "I can't always do it right" denied her "sense of self-affirmation" and made her suffer.

And she was constantly exposing herself to her mother's judgment (judgment from the outside), and her mind was exhausted.

There was also the imprint of "I am ashamed to show that I am not perfect".... Therefore, the client had a mixture of feelings that she did not want anyone to see through her.

The endless tears and sobs just wouldn't stop.

Now...how to raise this view of self-denial?

One thing is clear: she should go and welcome her. Acknowledge and accept him.

To break the spell herself, saying, "It doesn't have to be that way."

This is what I mean by opening Pandora's box.

It's really painful...but by accepting it, cleansing and healing will occur.

"It's okay to be me. It's okay to be me as I am.

And I'm already perfect as I am now..."

The client left the ZOOM room with a calm face.

We understand that it must have been really painful for you to expose yourself. I would like to express my sincere admiration for your courage to take that step.